How To Get Him Back After Breakup – Ultimate Guide

How To Get Him BackFirst of all, I would like to thank you for visiting this page. In this page you will discover my favorite how to get him back guide. In this guide you will find out exact step-by-step guidelines on how to make him regret leaving you and beg you to get back together.

The sole objective of this guide is to help you now and for next 30 days in understanding reasons behind why your relationships ended and prepare you to regain the attraction from your ex boyfriend.

A Note about ‘No Contact’

I am sure you heard about no contact. Many relationship experts are in favor of ‘no contact’ while other experts are against it. In my personal experience although no contact works but many girls misusing it to the level where it works ‘against’ them.

Before starting this guide I want you to remove preconceived notions of what term ‘No Contact’ means to you.

Before we start….

I want you to keep in mind that,

“You Will Never Get Him Back By Reading Only”

In this 21st Century, Knowledge is not power instead it is your action that contains real power. If you don’t take action then you will never know what will come in your way. Your ex will never regret for his decision of leaving you until and unless you want him to do so (without letting him know).

After the breakup most people get mix emotions followed by weird questions like, “Why my ex leaves me?” “Where things go wrong in my relationship?” This is the reason I created this how to get him back guide.

This guide will answer your all questions and tells you what you need to do to reunite with your love once again.

Let’s get started…

Are You Ready To Learn How To Get Him Back?

Before starting the process of getting him back, you need to answer few questions that are listed below. It is important to answer these questions honestly because your success and failure depends on it. These questions are:

Just answer Yes and No…

  • Are you feeling sad right now?
  • Are you feeling anxious right now?
  • Are you suffering from emotional pain?
  • Are you having hard time moving on without your ex?
  • Do you still blame yourself and/or your ex for the breakup?
  • If you talk with your ex right now, do you feel you will break down and get emotional?

MOSTLY YES – If you answer ‘YES’ to most of these questions then I would suggest you to don’t process forward and take some break from your relationship because you are NOT emotionally ready. Emotions are IRRATIONAL means if you are emotional then you may take steps that can make your situation even worst.

MOSTLY NO – You are emotionally ready to start working on getting him back. Jump to next section.

SECTION 1 – What Really Went Wrong In Your Relationship?

How to Get Him BackThis topic is the most important part of this how to get him back guide. This is because in this section you will find out what really went wrong in the relationship and what your man needs in the relationship. Understanding about this will help you in avoiding mistakes that you done before and they also help you if you decided to create new relationship.

Before we talk about anything else, let’s take a look on 4 pillars of relationship or you can say 4 souls of relationship

  1. Love – this includes how you both communicate, appreciate, admire and respect each other
  2. Physical connection – includes the physical connection between you and your partner on daily basis
  3. Sex – includes physical affections, sexual intimacy and passion
  4. Trust – include security, comfort and commitment.

These are four pillars of any relationship if anyone is missing from your relationship that means your relationship is not as strong as you want. Important point is above list is not in perfect order. Some couples give more importance to trust while some give more importance to love than any other thing. You have to evaluate your relationship needs and place them accordingly.

Now take a look on what men want in the relationship,

We often think men ONLY want sex but it is just a misconception because SEX is not the only thing that man wants in the relationship. Higher than sex, man wants RESPECT from his girlfriend or wife. If your man left you for someone new that doesn’t mean he finds someone prettier or sexier than you instead it means that your man finds respect, admiration and interest from someone else that you once showed to him.

This made me to search more about what men really wants from the relationship and in the end I conclude that man wants three things in the relationship and that are:

  1. To be feel like a man
  2. Sex
  3. Trust

To Be Feel Like A Man:

Alpha ManRespect, admiration and interest hold higher value than sex for every man. Your man wants to feel like a man or in simple words we can say that your man wants to get admiration for what he currently is and he wants you to respect his decisions. This doesn’t mean he wants to control each and every aspect of the relationship.

If you want to show respect, admiration and interest to your man then you need to back to the basics. I mean you need to think about those days when you go for date with your ex boyfriend first time. For your convenience here are things that attracted your man:

  • Confident woman who knows how to handle problems by her own
  • Woman who appreciate what her man does for her in life
  • Woman who trust her man and keep faith on him

If you think your ex boyfriend is your only love in your life and you want him to get back to you then you need to stop complaining or blaming yourself or your ex for breakup. That is the reason you need to become supportive by focusing on what your man has to say to you.


There is very popular saying, “A relationship with no physical connection is no relationship”. Men want sex and intimacy for long term relationship. It is very difficult for men to stay in the relationship when there is no fun or their relationship is lacking in intimacy and sex.

We women are more verbal but it is difficult for men to express what he wants. Men tend not to ‘talk’ about emotions rather they believe in ‘performing’.

If you feel it is very long since you both had fun in bed then you need to talk about it from your men and tells him about what you like and what turns you on. It is important for women to be more vocal about these things. If you are on long distance relationship then make sure to use skype or webcam to express your desire and love.


Trust is very important in every relationship. The problem with trust is it takes very long to build but it can break in just blink of an eye. Once break it takes very long to rebuild it. Every man wants her woman to trust him. He doesn’t want his girl to start questioning about very little thing. He wants her girl to show trust on him and remain committed in the relationship.

If you broke trust of your man then you need to start working slowly

Section II – One Month to Reunion

Winning Him BackThe first section of this how to get him back guide talks about relationship pillars and what your man wants in the relationship. This section talks about how to reconnect with your ex. The sole objective of this section is to prepare you for whatever result comes when you meet your ex. In this section you will find out how to regain the attraction from your ex that you once had.

After the breakup your ex boyfriend may be not picking up your phone but he surely will read your text message.

For this reason Michael Fiore created a simple yet powerful plan in which he will show you how you can create your own powerful text message to make your ex boyfriend to regret his decision for leaving you and beg you to get back together.

Recently, Michael Fiore also created a short video presentation in which he talks about how text messages are powerful enough to bring your ex crawling back in his knees and want you to get back in his life.

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